| Location | Collinsville,ok |
| Age | 32 years |
| Cause of Death | Road Traffic Collision |
| Date of Birth | 06/06/1962 |
| Date of Death | 13/09/1994 |
| Visitors | 645 since 28/01/2009 |
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My aunt Kay was born to Shirley Crabtree and Robert Bauders of Collinsville OK. I was only 14 when she passed. She graduated the year before I was born and married her High School sweetheart, Mike Rader. They had a son in 1983 David Rader. While she was in High School she was in several clubs including FFA, Collinsville Round Up Club, and Tulsa Tech for Photograghy. She was a great photogragher, she did weddings, sports, but her favorite was her girls in the pageants.... They adored her as she did them, at her funeral she had a white caskette, it was closed to to cause of death, all of her girls from the United States placed pictures she had taken of them on the top of her caskette, it was a great tribute..Over 150 came to her funeral, she was well known and loved by all. She never met a stranger. She also loved spending time with family, back then we had a pretty big family. She enjoyed the sprint car races, and took pics of David Chappell, she was friends with his whole family..I remeber one Christmas like it was yesterday, My grandmother got the cd that had the song Buggle Boy of Company B, my grandma and my aunt got up and started dancing the jitterbug. They had soo much fun. Kays son David recentley married his love Sarah. I had the honor of doing their wedding pics, Davids step MOM Rhonda bought some pink roses, and she attached a picture of Davids mom to them and carried them down the isle for David..He doesnt remember much about his mom, but he knows she has a special place in his heart, and that she is with her baby boy everyday. And I am sure she would be thankful to his step MOM Rhonda for raising him to be the man he has become. We miss you Aunt Kay keep taking those pictures. And doing what you do best,Sparkle.. The man who hit my aunt is still in prison, he was running from the cops, from a burglary situation. There were other people hurt in this accident. After my aunt passed and I turned 16 I always kept a pic of her in a keychain attached to my rearview mirror, I wrecked my car one night, when I went to get out of my car my aunts pic was laying face up in my lap, she was watching over me. XOXOXOXO
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MR HALLMARK
Dear Mr Hallmark
I am writing to you from Heaven, and though it must appear
A rather strange idea, I see everything from here.
I just popped in to visit, your stores to find a card
A card of love for my loved ones, as there finding it very hard.
There must be some mistake I thought, I saw every card you could imagine
Except I could not find a card, from a person who lives in heaven.
They are still my loved ones too, no matter where I reside
I had to leave, they understand, but oh the tears they cried.
I thought that if I wrote you, that you would come to know
That though I live in heaven now, I still love my family so.
They talk with me, and dream with me; we still share laughter too,
Memories are our way of speaking now, would you see what you could do?
My loved ones carries me in their heart, their tears they hide from sight.
They write poems to honor me, sometimes long into the night
They plants flowers in my garden, there my living memory dwells
They write to other grieving families, trying to ease their pain as well.
So you see Mr.Hallmark, though I no longer live on earth
I must find a way to remind my family of their wondrous worth.
They need to be honored, and remembered too
Just as the people of earth will do.
Thank you Mr.Hallmark, I know you'll do your best
I have done all I can do; to you I'll leave the rest.
Find a way to tell them, how much they mean to me
Until I can do it for myself, when they join me in eternity
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Hi Aunt Kay, thought I would let you know I think of you often. When you died I lost my 2nd mother. You were a awesome person, and before mom passed you were my Guardian Angel, now she has taken that position, but you are still a precious angel to me.. Love you lots..Feather Dawne
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